Do not be lazy onto the Lord. Work as unto the Lord.
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Struggle Against A Lazy Heart

I wanted to post about being lazy last week. However, I could not get a post written that I actually felt was worth putting up. Every time I would get words out, I knew the Scripture I was quoting was appropriate to what I was writing; but, I just could not make it translate in a way that seemed right.

After a talk with a friend, a sermon that wasn’t even directly addressing laziness, and my husband making a comment he didn’t realize would be important to me I needed to do some praying. None of these people realized at the time that they were speaking to something in my life that I did not want to recognize. Why? Because I had not yet admitted to myself that laziness was something I was struggling with! Not that I am not usually doing something, but I am not always doing something productive or even something that is good.

She rises while it is still night and provides food for her household …She watches over the activities of her household and is never idle.

Proverbs 31:15;27  HCSB

In Proverbs we see the picture of the perfect Christian woman. One of the attributes we’re to desire is to be hardworking and actively seeking after the Kingdom of God in all areas of our life. When I sat down and had a hard look at my life I did not see someone who could be characterized by “waking while it is yet night” or “never idle.” That is pretty disturbing, mostly because it means I am not honoring God in this area of my life, but also because of who sees this area of my life most. My family, including my husband and young children. 

What are you doing when you first rise for the day?

In this season of life my husband does not have normal business hour work, and while it is one thing to try to adjust a bit, it is another for me to try to do it all and so not do anything well. I cannot both “rise while it is yet night” and stay up for several hours after my husband gets home from work.

How is this lazy? Because rather than examining my schedule to see how I can both be available and supportive to my husband and honoring God with my time, I just keep trying to do it all. These repeated attempts to do it all have left me tired, easily aggravated, and prone to idleness as I find that I just cannot keep up. When I am worn down from trying to do it all myself, I am not resting in God’s grace and peace, and I am not honoring Him. I am allowing myself to have a lazy heart instead of one that is seeking after God.

But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be provided for you. 

Matthew 6:33 HCSB

God already knows what you need, and He has the power to provide it. Seek Him.

“Preparing food for her household” is an important practice. Personally, I love to cook and bake, but it has always been the joke in our home that I am not a morning person. This has been an excuse for me again and again to only keep breakfast foods the children can make themselves readily available so that I can sleep later. This is obviously not me giving my family my best though, this is not being a hard worker at home or giving my children a good example to follow. What’s worse, they do not even see my devotional time this way. How can I teach my family the importance of God first if I am not demonstrating it in my own life? I cannot.

When time in God’s Word has been demoted to when I fit it in instead of a first thing in the morning priority, I am living with a lazy heart. 

On the other side, I don’t think we should be content to have prepared breakfast, lunch, and dinner, but never cracked open the Bible with our family. At one point we tried to read from Proverbs every morning. But, isn’t that sentence telling in how we took our Bible reading though? We “tried” to read Proverbs every morning. We did not make it the priority.

Our mornings have been taken over by chores, getting out the door on time for different programs, and starting school on time recently. It is not wrong to put every good effort into maintaining our home, or to arrive on time for something we have committed to, and we all can agree that a good education is important for our children; but, if it comes at the expense of spending time with God then we need to examine how busy our lives are and where our real priority should be.

Do not be lazy onto the Lord. Work as unto the Lord. Get up even ten minutes earlier than you usually do and sit down to fellowship with God in His Word before your day begins. Watch yourself for idleness creeping in and fight it off with intentional effort to be sure you are honoring God with your time.

A few verses to hold onto as you engage in struggling against laziness:

  • Proverbs 12:27
  • Proverbs 31:15;21
  • Colossians 3:23
  • Hebrews 6:11-12
As a personal aside, I do not believe “rises while it is yet night” is a command for every woman to be up at 5 am.  I believe the principle behind it is to make sure we are honoring God when we rise, not necessarily to be up at dawn. 
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I'm Rebecca, a Christian, wife, and mother of three. I lived wrong for a long time, got pretty well slapped with the reality of how sanctifying marriage and motherhood are, and now I am hoping to help others to hold on to Jesus in all the hard parts of life.

5 Comments

  • Michele Morin

    I like that description: a lazy heart.
    And it’s something I watch out for myself–I’ve asked myself before some of the reasons for my no’s to my kids. Am I saying no for a good, solid reason, or is it just because I don’t want to “bother with it.”

    • Rebecca Peterson

      I know I was convicted of it recently, but it is more like “convicted again” because it is a sin that is so easy to fall into! Examining motives is an ongoing battle, and one I am thankful for Christ’s strength to continue in. ❤️

  • Kara

    I think we all need to do what is right for our families and ourselves. For some that may mean rising while it is dark to make a solid breakfast. For others, it may mean preparing things the night before. I have found that the best way to take care of it all without feeling overwhelmed is to have a routine, or a rhythm to the day.

    • Rebecca Peterson

      It all comes down to the heart❤️ The why we do what we do is important, and I believe God looks at the heart over the clock or any outward appearance (1Samuel 16:7; Matthew 5:27-28 demonstrate this I believe).

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